Devotion - Tuesday, February 14

There is very little reliable information about a St. Valentine.  The various legends arise from the 3rd century, though most of them were not compiled for another 900 years.  

There are common themes in these legends.   And many of these legends find a common link in relationships.  It is widely held that Valentine aided couples by officiating at marriages which the state would have preferred not happen.  The oppression of Christians may have included a prohibition against marriage.  Valentine is said to have ignored this and, at his own personal risk, assisted these couples.

Another angle on the same story involves what marriage meant in the lives of these persons.  Married men were exempted from military service.  By officiating at these weddings, Valentine was reducing the number of available young men - a matter which never pleases those sending others off to fight their wars.

One aspect of these legends stands out to me.  Valentine was honored for his willingness to assist and aid others.  It does not seem to be his own satisfaction or his own joy which lies at the root of his actions.  He seeks to serve others.  In doing so, he gains notoriety and he is (in some circles for a period of time) honored for his deeds.

It is in the 18th century when references to St. Valentine were linked to romantic love and its expression in one's most intimate relationships.  These are the associations we are most inclined to hear and to repeat.  How sad that we reinterpret to our own liking the courageous witness of a servant of God.

If you had not previously planned to observe Valentine's Day, I hope you will change your plans.  Look for ways in which you can follow the example of this saint; search out ways in which you can aid and assist others.  Identify opportunities to protect them from oppressors and to make possible covenants in which each life is enhanced and God's will has the opportunity to be done.