How difficult it is, for us to follow Paul in this particular behavior. There is nothing as risky as pointing out to someone how their actions or words are being perceived by others. We find it easy to lavish affirming words on another. But what do we do when it is time for us to point out that a particular behavior pattern is not appropriate?
It is a matter of trust. It is a matter of knowing that the other loves us and has our best interest at heart.
I encourage you to identify and then invite others into such a circle of trust. Ask of your best friends that they truly do you the honor of saying to you what you most need to hear. Be open to the helpful assistance of others and to their attempts to help you see your words and actions from another angle.
"I do not write this to make you ashamed, but to admonish you as my beloved children." I Corinthians 4. Learn this verse by heart, and apply it to your life.
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